The first day of school has passed today. Some children succeed through without tears, and ready to face tomorrow with passion. However, some other children, through today with tears, fear and sadness were outstanding, as well as the parents.Mom, at the age of school-age early levels, it is something natural. Usually children spend most of his time at home or with their parents. But upon entering the school level, a sense of comfort and security that seemed drawn from them. As a result came the fear and excessive concern, feel abandoned her mother and father while at school.
As parents, there is certainly a sense of not bear to see bawl saw you leave the school gates. What to do ya? Who must be a parent is to remain at the establishment to abandon the child. Children need time to get used to for about 2 weeks until they finally understand that since that day, the school is one of the things they need to do their own without a father and mother.
Then, how to train children to be ready to be left alone at school?
- Say Goodbye With Cheers
Make this separation becomes a natural thing. Therefore, do not install a sad facial expression. Instead, smile when saying goodbye.
- Focus On Fun Activity
Rather than discussing about the breakup, many are talking with your child about the fun things you can do when you are not with him. You can distract him by asking him to draw or beams of the game after school. In this way, the child will understand that it’s OK to have fun without you.
Seeing the little appetite decreased, it feels sad yes, Ladies? In times of growth, it requires a complete nutrition to grow well. Today voracious eating, it could be tomorrow movement mouth shut. Well, if his appetite does not go back. You can try to apply some effective ways below to baby.
- Serve Favorite Meal At Breakfast
Breakfast is a determinant of whether or not fulfilled and nutrition into the body of the child. If your child can have breakfast regularly, then the growth process can also be run optimally. Try to observe, from the menu so that often you serve, which is the most enjoyed with gusto? From there, you can develop the menu again with different variations so that your child can not easily get bored.
- Always Provide Food in proximity of
Another way that is effective enough to meet the nutritional intake throughout the day your child is putting food as a snack nearby. Make food creations with forms that funny little guy as a healthy snack. For example, pieces of fresh fruit shaped like animals. Serve every two hours, with a portion a little, so that your child can not easily get bored.
- Reset Portion Eating Right
It often makes the little irritated and reluctant to eat, because the meal portions seen so much. According to Judy More, a child nutrition expert and member of the Infant & Toddler Forum in Britain, eating right child could follow several types of these foods.
Glad child has stepped on the age of 6 months. This means it has started to be allowed to get his first meal, in addition to breast milk. Support growth, by providing foods that have high nutritional, as shown below.
- Summer squash
Besides having a natural sweetness like a baby, yellow squash does not cause allergies and are rich in beta carotene. Sources of vitamin A is necessary for growth, fight infection, and maintain healthy skin and hair. The best way to maintain the nutritional content is to steam. Serve with how polished and adjust the viscosity yes.
This green leafy vegetable is an excellent source of calcium, vitamin A, iron, and selenium are good. But because the nitrate content is high enough, wait until the baby reaches the age of 8 months, before giving spinach as food. There are several ways to prepare spinach, ranging from steaming, boiling, until with olive oil. Cook until tender leaves, tender stems, and shrink. Puree and give it to the baby, or mixed with fruit pulp or rice.
- fruit Berry
Berries are rich in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants that maintain immunity. However, these fruits can cause allergic reactions, particularly if previously been diagnosed with a food allergy. To minimize the risk of choking, serve berries in a state of carefully washed, then steamed, or mashed until it reaches the desired consistency.
After giving exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months, is now the right time to introduce food to your baby. This is done to support the adequacy of nutrition and optimal growth. But feeding too early can lead to digestive problems, even choking. Consider the signs of the child is ready to eat, as shown below.
- Grabbing food and Insert to Mouth
When the baby began to be interested in solid food, he will not shy notify people in the surrounding areas. Starting from reacting with the joy of seeing people eat, reach food on the plate, or grab a fork and spoon, either to play or to put in his mouth. Note this when you play around with the baby yes.
- Already Can Start Sitting Position
Most babies will be able to sit down at the age of 3-5 months, but usually still need help to sustain good with his hands, had the support of parents, as well as chairs. But at the age of 6 months, the child has to develop the muscles of the neck, upper body and back muscles to be able to sit without support. It makes it easier when you start eating, because it can eat and swallow food, without the risk of choking easy.
Whether the little one this year have started to learn fast? Although not full stride, and more emulate what Mom and Dad, there’s nothing wrong, you know, begin to teach the little one to hold back his emotions. This she steps:
- Take It to Play
His name is also the children, of course he was happy to play. Take the Small to play his favorite game. Accompany it while playing so that he will feel comforted and happy.
- Divert attention
When the little one began to be provoked, for example, fighting over a toy with relatives or friends, try to divert his attention to something more interesting, such as watching TV, playing music, or taking them to move to another room. Children who are distracted usually quickly forget his anger and cheered.
- Throw Jokes
Small children are usually happy to see things that are funny. Mother can, you know, more creative by showing things that provoke laughter, such as wearing a funny hat or a joke like the Small. In essence, make her laugh and forget the sadness or anger.
In an age that is sophisticated and everybody already has a gadget, you might miss the days when books are still so many people’s favorite. As many people know, there is a sentence which says that the book is a window to the world, but it seems that role began to shift with the advent of the internet. No wonder then the present generation more closely with the Internet than with a book. But do not let the kids loved the computer screen or gadget, so get to read books has more benefits you know. Try these five tips that children love to read books.
- Make a habit of reading books in the house (even before they go to school)
Good habits should start from the immediate environment, the family. Inviting children to get used to reading books home will make him aware of the importance of reading books. You can start with a children’s story book she likes, even before they enter school.
- There was a problem reading the same book over and over again
When children like something, he will continue to repeat it again and again. Do not get bored with her to read the book over and over again, even though he already knew the story but still felt the same pleasure of children, so accompany only while you introduce other storybook.
- Read the books you want to read
Although he may not understand what you read, let him join to see what you read. You can read a few sentences on it and explain what you are reading. Create simple as possible.
Nothing more to be proud parents today have great kids, which is responsive to children who have achievements in academics and also has a sense of caring.A great kid to have a balance between cognitive intelligence (IQ) and emotional intelligence (EQ). Then, how roles and parental support to form a Small One became a great kid?
Stimulation IQ and EQ
Provide the appropriate stimulation in accordance with the period of growth, but keep in mind that progress can not be measured like EQ IQ. The development of the EQ Small is a process that must be developed gradually from an early age.
To make appropriate parenting, invite other family members to work together in order to create an environment that supports the growth of children.Maximize the potential of the Little by providing stimulation as follows:
Leave your cell phone or stop doing other activities when with the little one. Give your full attention even just rolled along, run chase arrest or tell each other stories.If done lovingly then the cells will develop emotionally Small One.
Give the little one bag of chocolate, persuaded the Small to share them with friends.Do not forget to encourage him counting. In addition to honing IQ he learned how to behave, share and socialize with their environment. Continue reading
Provides new lessons to children.Did you know, without many are aware, as a parent you canlearn a lot from children? Try starting today, observe the doings of the children, and then try to apply it to yourself.Here are some inherent behavior in children, which can copy.
1. Dare to ask
Not shy and notafraid to ask questions, though sometimes the questions that you think is silly. If you did not know how to deal with the influenza toddler -which is considered a common disease and all mothers must be able to handle, why you did not ask.One-mishandled, actually harm it. Foster a sense of wonder that a lot of it matters anyway, Mother! Because there were no schools for parenting.
2. Enjoy life
Every morning, ritual child was jumping on the bed.Only a few times leap alone, was seen happy facesparas. And if you observe in detail, there are many more rituals that are considered ‘miraculous’ by adults. In fact, what he is doing is enjoying the form of his childhood.
3. Everyone is the same
Children tend to not care about the difference, either gender, color, age, disability, religion and even race. Whatever the type, the children did not hesitate to rebuke and playing around with his new friend. Toddlers also tend to always treat people nice to him with good treatment anyway. Continue reading
While accompanying children to the playground, he seemed more silent than other children. If children his age running around, chattering, joking to screaming, the child would choose to sit quietly on a bench. Seeing these facts, do not panic, Mother. Not necessarily problematic toddler in communicating or socializing.
1. Find out why
Finding no children aged 2 years sociable with strangers, then changed drastically becomes quiet at the age of 3 years. This is because children aged 2 to 4 years of entering a new phase of anxiety toward strangers so that they are afraid of a stranger.
2. Encourage the child to interact according to their interests taciturn Children tend to have a unique and powerful interests. Give children the opportunity to undergo his interest. When parents get involved and support, children are happy and confident to socialize with other children. To follow his silence interests, encourage children to get acquainted with what is in the environment. Start first with inanimate objects, plants or animals. If he had refused to move and told me, then encourage him to interact with their peers. Or take the kids to play-which does not require interaction with other people.
3. Keep asking children to talk
Give full understanding in children that being quiet is okay. Explain that he does not have to be like the A or the B talkative. But explained that he could not keep quiet if he wanted to ask something, mengungakapkan feelings (such as sadness or happiness), felt uncomfortable, feeling sick or hurt by other people. Tell that to speak, the mother, father, and others will understand what he wants. Continue reading
Parted long enough with you, for example, you have to go to work, can be a difficult thing for him. No wonder if the child is crying every time you go to the office. At this age, children are still very dependent on the presence of people who are very close to him, but does not make it can not be independent. When people close to him go, he will feel lost and very sad that is expressed in the form of crying.
The solution :
1. Tell the child to be honest with where you are going, including the reason you go. For example, Mother went to work, yes, son. Mother would be home again tonight. Remember, do not closeout promise to return quickly if you are not sure.
2. Ask for help to people you trust to provide exciting activities to distract her from the memory of you. Continue reading